Being asked to be an usher for a friend or family members wedding is an honor. While there will be a little work, remember the couple has chosen you to be an ambassador for them on their special day. Here are some things you may want to keep in mind:
How to Find the Right Bridesmaid Dresses for Your Wedding
By Stacey Martin
The kind of bridesmaid dresses your bridal attendants should should wear depends on the type of wedding you end up having.
What’s your wedding theme?
Do you have a particular theme in mind? For instance, if you had a nautical theme for your wedding as a whole, you might want to have special sailor-style dresses for your bridesmaids.
Likewise, an Irish theme wedding might have bridesmaids in traditional Celtic apparel. A casual beach wedding calls for sundresses in a fun print or perhaps a solid linen to match your flowers.
Plan your bridesmaid dresses based on your budget
You should select bridesmaid dresses that are not only complementary to your wedding dress and overall wedding theme, but you also need to consider whether your choice of dress is also affordable for your bridesmaids, who often don’t have the same budget as you do for your dress.
If your bridesmaids cannot afford a fancy dress, you should pay for them yourself rather than force them to forfeit their role in your wedding. More than one wedding has been ruined because of hurt feelings, and it’s easy to overcome them if you show a little sensitivity to your bridesmaids’ needs.
Bridesmaid dresses for a large wedding?
If you have a large wedding party, you might want to select different dresses for your attendants other than the maid/matron of honor. Then you can come up with a special dress for your maid of honor that has extra-special touches to let her shine.
Large bridesmaids?
Pardon the pun in that subhead, but sometimes your bridesmaids have figure problems that you don’t. In those cases, you should try to ensure that they look their best in the bridesmaid dresses you choose for your bridal attendants.
Slightly overweight bridesmaids will feel uncomfortable in tight bridesmaid dresses that don’t complement their figures — and your tomboyish friends won’t want to wear lilac ruffles and frills. How to Find the Right Bridesmaid Dresses for Your Wedding »
The Maid of Honor – Remember, It’s All About the Bride!
By Charity Plaster
The term and role “Maid of Honor” is sometimes confusing, and desperately needs some clear definition! When a Bride is choosing who will be her MOH, she needs to think about who will offer her the support, the helping hand, and the positive attitude she will need on her wedding day and the months leading up to it. The Maid of Honor – Remember, It’s All About the Bride! »
Maid to Perfection: Favorite Tips for Managing Your Beautifully Bewitching Bridesmaids
By Terrie Needham
As a highly evolved, yet completely realistic, woman, I’ll be the first to admit that when you place 10 females in a room, you’ll wind up with 25 different opinions.
That’s the dilemma each of us faces when we plan our weddings. As we peruse bridesmaids’ gowns, jewelry and accessories, each ‘maid will not be shy about sharing her own favorite colors, personal preferences and style agenda. In addition to a wedding gown, you may want to invest in a striped referee’s shirt! After all, you’re the umpire-but how can you stay in charge, while also keeping the peace as you prep for the most important day of your life? Maid to Perfection: Favorite Tips for Managing Your Beautifully Bewitching Bridesmaids »
